From: Eleanor McHugh Date: 2009-05-13T01:25:40+09:00 Subject: Re: On the Niceties of Asking For what You Want (was Re: Want some information....) On 12 May 2009, at 16:47, Rick DeNatale wrote: > On Tue, May 12, 2009 at 10:21 AM, Eleanor McHugh > wrote: >> I can only speak from a British perspective, but 'want' does sound >> slightly >> too demanding compared to 'need' or 'like' in this context. A more >> natural >> (and oblique) phrasing would be along the lines of 'I was wondering >> if >> anyone knows how to handle authentication in Ruby?" which cares >> much less of >> an emotional subtext than the more direct approach. > > Fair enough, but may have the temerity to suggest that civility would > best be preserved if we follow at least the part of Postel's law about > being liberal in what we accept, particularly in a 'place' frequented > by a mix of American's, Brit's, other native 'English' speakers, and > non-native speakers who have various ideas/knowledge of what's > proper/conservative to produce. Oh definitely. Ellie Eleanor McHugh Games With Brains http://slides.games-with-brains.net ---- raise ArgumentError unless @reality.responds_to? :reason