From: Todd Benson Date: 2007-07-16T22:57:39+09:00 Subject: Re: I need serious help! On 7/16/07, SonOfLilit wrote: ( A great many wise things about flaming and general courtesy ). Aur, I agree with you completely. I was thinking last night, well, he's just a kid. Maybe I was too hard on him. But, I also thought that even at his young age, one thing you really shouldn't do is enter a room and try to 'own' it. Flame wars suck; no doubt about it. I still think, however, that people should be told gently, but firmly, when they are out of line. I would certainly prefer people in a forum to do that to me than some others practices that have been mentioned (i.e. blacklisting). My 1/2 cent. Todd